Dear Pat,
I don't think that you should be friends with somebody who doesn't treats you as a friend. A friend should love you because of who you are and your friend shouldn't compare you to others of this friend is a real friend, and don't compare yourself to others. So please don't get the surgery it won't do any good, because others will laugh at you because of you got plastic surgery. You are beautiful just the way you are. Don't be friends with people who are like this, and one more really important thing, love yourself. You have to love yourself first and then people can start liking you.